Some would say I grew up privileged. That word bothers me. I did grow up privileged but not because I had a lot of material things or because it was a picture of unblemished family bliss. I grew up privileged because of the simplicity of our lives. Here are some of my simple joys. My mom loved hard ice cream. We would seek out hard ice cream whenever we were on the “long to a child” road trip to our cottage every weekend. I to this day have a love for hard ice cream and have found places wherever I have lived or traveled that sells wonderful ice cream. My favourite is sold in the Kawaihae Harbour on the Big Island of Hawai’i. They make the most wonderful “Rocky Road” with locally grown and toasted coconut, macadamia nuts, and big chunks of chocolate and marshmallow. Another simple joy was my mom and dad had a love for antiques. Many a Saturday I stood in the damp air of a little farm, hearing the familiar chatter of the locals and the auctioneer chanting in the background and and feeling the excitement and stir of a good deal. My favourite Saturday is estate sales to this day, and have stood with americano in hand first and second in line and found so much comfort meandering around someones home. Enjoying the atmosphere of others who enjoy the same hobby and treasuring the untold sacred memories behind every little item I would lovingly hold. Another simple joy was in the springtime touring the beautiful nurseries with my mom picking out her silver dusty miller and her orange and red marigolds that she loved to plant in front of our home. On a day like today where its -10 degrees I often find myself after errands are done or find myself ” not really in the area but close enough” heading down to Sunnyside Nursery to smell the air and walk amongst the pretty plants for a moment and let it transport me to a warmer clime. These moments when I allow myself these simple joys is when my heart feels whole and I feel a connection to this beautiful earth and those I enjoy it with. Here’s to a weekend of simple joys for all of us!
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